How To Find A Friend
55What Is A Friend
We all need friends. Human beings are sociable animals and we enjoy being with other like minded people but how do you begin in your search to find a friend?
There are many different types of friendships and people sometimes mean different things when they talk about somebody being a friend.
A friend is someone who sympathizes with you when they see you are in a lake surrounded by crocodiles. A true friend is there right beside you helping you to survive in a difficult situation.
Perhaps that isn't the best example of true friendship but it does show there are differences between being just a friend or acquaintance and being a true friend. Knowing what a true friend is does not make it easy to find them. True friends are people who you feel close to and that closeness develops over time through shared feelings and experiences.
There are many other relationships where people talk of friends including online friends where you only ever speak online and adult friends where the friendship is more a physical friendship. It takes all sorts of people and friends to make the world go round and we all have different wants and needs.
Finding Friends Online
You can use many of the social websites to help you find old friends online. We all pass through life meeting new people and moving on from the contacts we had years before. This is not always planned or intentional and we sometime wish we could get back in touch with some of the close friends from our past. Social websites like facebook.com are great for this because so many people are on there. You cannot always easily find them but often they are just a few licks away and you can reconnect and be friends once again.
There are software programs to help you locate people for whatever reason and with one of these packages you can type in a few details about someone and it will try to locate them using official records that are available online. They can be very good tools to help track someone down.
You can make new friends online. There are numerous dating websites available online both free and paid for. Many of these dating sites have very active forums where you can chat and many of the members are only really there to chat as they are not really looking to date anyone.
There are other websites that are simply there for people to chat and get to know each other. They may have an ulterior motive like adult friend finder or they ma just be lonely people wanting to share a few hours online conversation with like minded people.
Finding Adult Friends
Adult friends is often used as a euphemism for finding people for adult and physical relationships and in most cases this is for no strings fun. There are specialist websites out there that you cn find for these activities.
They are pretty much like a dating site where you have a picture and write a profile about yourself but in this particular type of site the details are a lot more explicit as are the pictures. You pay a fairly high monthly cost for monthly membership for this type of friendfinder site but for those looking for this sort of thing I guess they think it is good value for money.
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Good hub covering different aspects of friendships. It's good to remember there are many variations and depths of relationships. I've been finding old friend on facebook and even gotten together with people I've not seen in 30+ years. It's great - I recommend it. There is nothing like old friends that knew you when you were a kid before all the masks came on. They just know who you really are and if they still like you - it's wonderful.








Hello, hello, 17 months ago
Brilliantly written hub with good advise